I consider this rule to be a discipline/mental blindfold. Enforced eyeline: Your sub must look straight ahead, and only straight ahead, at all times.As long as the rule won’t undermine your authority, make logical sense, and is created with a purpose, you’re good to go. Since a scene is something you have nearly complete control over, you don’t have to be nearly as vigilant with the rules you put into play.
When it comes to rules for a scene, the only limit is your imagination. If you are interested in the rules and concepts used for managing a poly relationship, let me know. The details of how you run your relationship will be tied into the BDSM roles you take on, but they shouldn’t be confused as being the same. Note: I’m not mentioning any relationship rules we have, just the ones related to the BDSM side of our relationship. All other rules are given with a time constraint on them. If she is put on her knees, or all fours, she isn’t allowed to rise, without permission.She is never allowed to enter my bed without permission.She is never allowed to remove her collar without permission.The only persistent rules I have with my sub are as follows:
If I am doing my job, deserving of their respect, instilling a genuine desire to please me, then I will always be addressed as I desire, regardless of any rules. Instead I make it clear to my subs that it pleases me greatly to be addressed with respect. Going back to our first example, of having them always address you as Sir, this rule has possible issues with both number 1 and number 3 on that list. Like ties, rules shouldn’t get in the way.
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One of the most common topics dominant men want to talk to me about are the rules for their submissive, more specifically what rules to create, what rules to avoid, and how to enforce them.